I'll send food back if it's made wrong, no big deal. It happens. When I was younger I worked in restaurants and have had steaks I was proud of sent back and have other food sent back that I either made incorrectly or the waitress wrote the order incorrectly.
"Shit happens".
Respect and understanding goes a long way regardless of what side of the coin you're on.
Around here, I think half the time they hear me say, "No pickles" they hear, "Extra pickles" and pile it on. Gross.
I like pickles, just not on sandwiches or burgers.
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Passive aggressiveness doesn't get you what you want. You have to assert what you want before you eat it. Also, maybe pick a better restaurant.
But don't be a Karen about it.